Ivy Merrick

Dating apps editor, SwitchDate

What I cover

Mainstream dating apps, from the point of view of someone deciding whether to leave the one they are on. That means what each app is designed for, how its matching works, where its free tier stops, who it suits and who should not bother with it.

How I work

Every app described on this site gets installed and used before anything is written about it, including the signup and the free tier. The full method, and the things it cannot tell you, are on the method page. The short version is that research here means using the thing, reading its own documentation, and comparing that against what users report, rather than repeating a press release.

What I will not write

  • A ranking that an app can pay to change. There is no sponsored placement on this site.
  • A claim that an app is better without saying what it is better for, because almost every comparison resolves to that.
  • Anything about an app I have not used, or about a number I cannot verify.

Contact

Corrections and questions go to [email protected].

Guides by Ivy Merrick

Am I shadowbanned on Tinder?

Am I shadowbanned on Tinder? Learn what the label really covers, which account faults you can rule out yourself, and why no outside site can confirm a shadowban.

5 min read

Why am I not getting matches on Tinder?

Why am I not getting matches on Tinder? Work out which of the three causes has stopped your queue, what to change, and when the pool near you is the real answer.

6 min read

How to get unbanned from Tinder

How to get unbanned from Tinder: find the notice, build an appeal that states facts, avoid the mistakes that weaken it, and know what a refusal means.

7 min read

How to get more matches on Tinder

How to get more matches on Tinder: fix the first photograph, build the rest of the set, spend likes deliberately, and know where paying does not help.

6 min read

Is Tinder only for hookups?

Is Tinder only for hookups? Separate the reputation from the design, read what one person wants, and decide what to do if you are looking for a relationship.

5 min read

Does Tinder still work?

Does Tinder still work? Check whether the app functions, whether the pool near you is active, and whether switching beats another profile edit.

5 min read

Why do I never get replies on Tinder?

Why do I never get replies on Tinder? See what happens to a message after you send it, how to write an opener that invites an answer, and when silence is the answer.

5 min read

The full roster is reviewed on the alternatives pages.